Coming Together with Maple Place

During the March 21st early closure, we invited families to come and celebrate one year of coming together with Maple Place. During the open house we shared our documentation, Coming Together with Place, an invitation to listen, to notice, and to respond with care. In the documentation we explored how our first year with Maple Place has not just been about us; it has been about learning how to be together with place. In this post, we share a glimpse into the open house – a summary of the text and photos of the exhibit panels, and our ethos which we wrote together after a year of thinking together with Place. We offer traces of our learning, echoes of our conversations, and the many ways we are coming to know and care for this place and one another. If you are interested in seeing the full exhibit, you are welcome to stop by.

     

 

 

 

After a year of coming together with Place, here is our Ethos:

Collective Reading Group notes from today

April 3rd 9:15am – 9:45am Collective Reading Group:

Tiny human geographies: babies and toddlers as non- representational and barely human life? (Holt & Philo, 2020)

Participants: Diana (Sitka Place), Cinder (Cedar Place), Kelcie (Acorn Place), Paty (Maple), Leanne & Kowisara (Juniper Place), Mary & Crystal (Willow Tree Place), Sadaf, Narda

Thanks to everyone who joined online today! Today’s discussion was a reminder of what slow reading-pausing-discussing-unpacking words-listening (to each other’s reflections on moments from practice) offers, in terms of nurturing a new ‘collective reading practice’ or ‘habit’ into existence. Whether we read a single paragraph or work through a whole page, we pack a lot into these 1/2 hour sessions! Looking forward to picking up again on page 7 next Tuesday.

Notes from today:

We began with a brief recap of last week’s discussion. Some stand-out points/questions in conversations thus far and from last week:

Why, in a subdiscipline concerned with the agency of children, are babies and toddlers largely absent? (p.3)

Babies and toddlers tell us something more aboiut what it means to be human in a lively and agentic world (p.3)

discussions of societal tendencies to see babies and toddlers as “out of place” in so-called adult spaces as culturally determined (as a Euro-Western-North American phenomenon which is different from other places in the world)

Ildikó’s question (and enthusiasm about considering): What happens if we follow children’s ways of moving, knowing, feeling in the world? What does this do to ‘us’ as educators. How might it shift our practices? What else could we learn? (to move with children instead of simply defaulting to managing behaviours, etc.)

Brief discussion/clarification today on terminology:

  • ethnographic research: as a qualitative method of study (often in social behavioural sciences) for collecting data to draw conclusions on how societies and individuals function (*taken from a quick search on the internet). Within ‘human’ research, ethnographic research often involves interviews as a form of data collection. Thom van Dooren and Deborah Bird Rose are Environmental Humanities scholars we have drawn on in the past, who use ethnographic methods in their multispecies research (following, documenting, and learning with flying foxes, crows, etc. about the places we co-inhabit in as a multispecies spaces).
  • mother-baby assemblages: a gathering of coming together of humans-creatures-prams-materials-forces that creates something new in virtue oftheir ‘togetherness’. More than the word ‘coupling’ (1+1 = 2, for example ‘a mother pushing a baby in a baby carriage’), an assemblage invites a rethink of the ways particular bodies come together and do differently in virture of their ‘coming togetherness’. For example on page 6 of the reading:
    Babies themselves exert their will and desires in the world ... babies approach city life with a very different sense of sociability to that of adults ... mother-baby assemblages can destablise received understandings ... a line of flight from normative ways of being ... . (Boyer 2018a, 49)

Thoughts/reflections/offerings as we moved through page 6:

-In response to the line the “responsibility that adults usually feel for child welfare, which always limits and constraints child agency (Vanderbeck 2008), at the same time positioning babies and toddlers as, so it seems, these particularly incapable, necessarily dependent barely-humans.” (Holt & Philo, 2022, p. 6) Kelcie made connections with tensions that occasionally come up with feeding babies. Reminded her of moments when a baby is telling them “I’m not hungry” Who defines what’s necessary in those moments? How does a ‘child’s agency’ meet with the obligation of meeting a child’s basic needs? These moments often become a question of ‘how’ versus one set of rules for every child in every situation. We don’t force children to the table, but how do we offer them food? “Look! this is waiting for you when you are ready” She shared moments when other babies tug at sleeves of the child who hasn’t eaten, trying to help get them to go eat. This led us into a new consideration “who is understood as being the ‘care-er’ versus the ones who are solely ‘cared for’?” Power dynamics of normative ages and stages disrupted. How we understand these things also speak to our image of the child.

-Diana shared ‘sticky situations’ where we use to give children less choices. In the past it may have been “time to put your coat on” whereas now more often the approach might be inviting them to put it on. She expressed discomfort with looking at cold children who may have refused to put their coat on. Where is the line?

-this took us into ethics, the role of the educator, and discussions about top down approaches which have potential to promote a disconnect between mind/bodies. There is so much change happening in society right now. Rather than looking at is as a “we ONLY do things ‘this’ way or ‘that’ way” the question of ‘how’ becomes more important. How we offer jackets, how we offer food, how we open up opportunities for young children to make decisions for themselves, of course without jeopardizing keeping children ‘safe’. What about the importance of cultivating a sense of ‘consent’ from the youngest of ages, when it comes to bodies? How might we rethink the ways power gets distributed within a centre? The language we use to communicate with children matters and shapes how children (at any age) learn to respond and treat each other. Sadaf and Mary contributed to this conversation too.

-we finished page 6 and wrapped up with the term “strange otherness” 🙂

Thanks again everyone for fascinating discussion.

Hope to see you again next week – we only have a couple of pages left in this piece and will be moving onto the Pro-D Day reading after that.

Best,

Narda

“The good news about stories…” (Richard van Camp, 2020)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi all!

I’m adding this short post to share a positive experience with Key, Linda and Sadaf on March 15th at First Peoples House. When the UVic Alumni Association advertised this event with Richard van Camp, as two unforgettable storytelling sessions they weren’t kidding! What an amazing speaker and storyteller! The audience went back and forth from laughing loudly to being quiet and reflective as we listened to the stories he shared. So grateful to Kim for sharing the brochure and I sincerely hope you all get a chance to take in one of Richard’s events on campus before his tenure is done, as UVic’s 2024/2025 Indigenous Storyteller-in-Residence.

March 15th Storytelling Sessions:

10 a.m. – 11 a.m.: Storytime for little ones at First Peoples House
A special session where Richard will read from his beloved children's books, including Kiss by Kiss, May We Have Enough to Share, We Sang You Home and Little You. These stories celebrate the beauty of childhood with themes of love, connection and belonging. Alumni with young children and local community members are invited to register for this session.
12 p.m. – 1:15 p.m.: A Deep Dive into Indigenous Storytelling
Richard will showcase a variety of his novels and explore the vital role of storytelling in Indigenous cultures. This session will also include an exclusive screening of Inkwo for When the Starving Return, a stop-motion animated short directed by Amanda Strong and co-written by Richard, based on his short story Wheetago War, from the collection, Night Moves. The film is presented with the support of Spotted Fawn Productions and the National Film Board of Canada and has been selected for the 2025 Sundance and 2024 Toronto International Film Festivals. We encourage alumni, students, faculty, staff and community members to attend. Please be aware that the film is intended for mature audiences, and it is recommended for viewers ages 16 and older.

Here’s a link to a short video (6 min 12 second) of Richard van Camp (2020) sharing a story, to give you a sense of his gifts as a storyteller and speaker: Contemporary Indigenous Storytelling by Fort Smith, NWT, Tlicho Dene Storyteller Richard Van Camp 

If you get a chance, I highly recommend checking out his NFB collaborative stop-motion animated film If you get a chance, I  look forward to watching Inkwo for When the Starving Return. (sure it is available to watch through UVic Libraries, if not available through the NFB website itself).

With gratitude for this fabulous day!